loving in the war years: day twenty two

Posted by on Aug 14, 2016

a day of mothering: milky oats trauma and grief have actual effects, not just on the heart or the mind, but on the body as well. and more often than not, when trauma and grief are mixed with stress, a body has almost no choice but to move into a ‘fight, flight or freeze’ state. …

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loving in the war years: day twenty one

Posted by on Aug 14, 2016

i still observe dia de los muertos. even after a white lady invited me over to her house to ‘celebrate’ with drinks she made from a new recipe she found, even after i was informed by a mexican mexican (who, unlike american poser mexican me, never suffered from assimilation) that i was doing it wrong, …

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loving in the war years: day eighteen

Posted by on Aug 14, 2016

grief it is something we are so rarely allowed to feel or to see or to even imagine lasts more than 2 or 3 days. i’ve studied war for over a decade now, and what shocks me, still, after all this time, are the people. 50, 60, 70 years after vietnam, korea, ww2…they still cry …

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loving in the war years: day sixteen

Posted by on Aug 6, 2016

a day of mothering: motherwort i didn’t know anything about motherwort the first time i tried it. motherwort is not one of those flashy herbs that ‘they’ promise is the next cure all. don’t get me wrong, it’s an herb you can find in whole foods or your local health food store. but it’s never …

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loving in the war years: day thirteen

Posted by on Aug 5, 2016

it happened again. and again. and again. Skye Mockabee. Korryn Gaines. Joyce Quaweay. women that this world desperately needed. i light candles, i pray, for these women, for Sky, Korryn and Joyce. i pray for their loved ones, who saw and felt the violence inflicted on the women inflicted on themselves. it’s not enough. it’s …

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